Men are fair from innocent I have three kids to prove it but I love them and him even if he is so wicked he’s my love. But I stand by my statement my friend did go through this and it didn’t end well. If as a couple they knew their options different choices would’ve been made. They were under the impression that she’d definitely get the visa and they’d live happily ever after.. he spent a lot of time and money setting up a home here in Hong Kong. Sadly not the case. But I regress the op has seemingly stopped taking interest even though there’s been good advice offered. So we did our part and we all carry on.