16 and up, meet up?

[jimbo]

Why isn't there more discussion about cougars in this thread?

Ah the Wyndham St Cougar gang. They're scary

[Satay Sue]

At what age does a woman become a cougar?

[jimbo]

At what age does a woman become a cougar?

40 upwards

[Brooklynexpat]

because no young white woman would date old farts?

I'm not a banker or a ruch guy. I make a decent salary but I'm far from rich. My wife married me out of love and not for the love of money. Maybe it's because I have something real to offer her that some of you bozos wouldn't know about.

[Beuze]

I will just read and share some info about restaurants etc... No more debating.

Last time you share info on restaurant it end up in a HUGE debat !!!

[Satay Sue]

Last time you share info on restaurant it end up in a HUGE debat !!!

But an amusing one

I think the way to enjoy (if that's the right word) this forum is to sometimes just accept that whatever you are going to say there'll be someone who disagrees with you. The thing is to not let it get it to you. I realise it's got a bit personal on this thread but then it was bound to from the word go. Brooklyn, you know that on this one it's time to move on, but shouldn't put you off posting in the future. You've more than made your point.

[luckycat]

I joined Geoexpat to find out about life in Hong Kong, share some info on rents, places to live, family life, restaurants, etc... I don't know why I'm getting involved in these stupid, useless conversations with jackasses like you. In the future I'm not going to get involved in anything like this and just won't give a damn about anything

This, unfortunately, pretty much sums up Geo these days.

There are a number of posters who are not like that though. Ignore the wankers is my only advice. Geo can be a very good source for "where can I buy XYZ" or "where is ABC".

[dctoki]

so he met her when she was 20 and he was what, early 40s, and you think that is okay.

here is a hypothetical. which of the following make you feel most uncomfortable as you walk down central:
- 16 year old girl with a 22 year old boyfriend (if you can even notice the age difference)
- 40-something western man with 20 year old asian girlfriend

and be honest now and don't base your answer on you forum friendships

I am not judging Brooklyn. Just feel it is a bit rich to be having such an intense go at rockyhorror dude for (potentially) dating a younger girl (and come on folks, 16 year olds are not that immature any more, especially compared to a 22 year old) when he is knocking around with someone young enough to be his daughter.

rank hypocrisy in my book.

First, he met her and liked her and THEN fell in love! She was 20 and told him she was 25. Had Ivy advertised she was 19/20 and a 22 year old male (rocky h dude) met her and really cared for her, only to find out later she lied and was actually 16, I wouldn't be critical of him. Just don't know why anyone would want to meet troubled 16 year olds online unless they have an ulterior motive. Unless they are 16 too.

[ivyivy]

@ Brooklynexpat:

I know you're getting called a hyprocrite and that's not something someone would be thrilled to hear, but just so you know, I am not some guy or a ladyboy by any means looking for some cyber attention.

I am not accusing or blaming you of anything. I am simply just sticking up for myself.

[luckycat]

Hear ye! Hear ye! Luckycat doth decree:

1. Ivy: you are 16. Don't come on an internet forum where weirdo lurkers live. Go join sports clubs, photography clubs, book clubs, rhythmic gymnastics, paisanos fanclubs etc etc. You will find friends that way. Enjoy being 16 but enjoy it responsibly.

NEXT!

2. Rockyhorror: all (that I can see) is you wanted to do was to meet up. Maybe you're bored or maybe you're lonely. I don't know. But do as Ivy does above and you'll be fine. To accuse you of being a paedo is very harsh. You have my apologies.

NEXT!

3. Shenwen: dude, seriously, learn to back off.

NEXT!

4. Paisanos boy: kudos for getting an (i imagine) super fit younger lady. This is my mission in twenty or so years time. I shall ask you for advice nearer to the time.

NEXT!

5. PDLM: P!ss off

Moderators, I do decree that this thread is closed.

Thank you, good night.

xx