Thank you for you sceptical reply. 1) Next time you're in UK. Go to Windsor Castle go on a tour of S to George's Chapel . You will see a memorial to be the fallen . You will see the name " Oswald Cross " my Uncle. 2) To compliment that you can go to Singapore and find his name on the wall at the war cemetary by the causeway to Jahor Bahru. "Cross,Oswald, Gunner,Royal Artillery." I visited in 73 when in the Navy and took pictures for my mother. He has no stone as he was buried at sea from a hospital ship.
Any more snarky remarks? Fyi his wife was given a grace and favour apartment for life by the King and the present Queen continued it. I visited her a few times.