i see, my gf is hk citizen, i m very confuse about my choise, whether to stay in indonesia with my hk gf or stay in hk with her.
indonesia is a terrorists nest, a very high criminal, i never walked alone in the street, and never took a public bus, too dangerous, used to drive a car, not like hk, everyone fell so free and secure walking along the street, my gf feels unsecure in indonesia, but i m chinese indonesian, born and live in indonesia, i think indonesia is easier to make living rather than hk, and everything is cheap, house, food. etc.
if i come to hk, i have to start from the beginning, learning cantonese, etc.