Hahaha! I was amazed by the emotion here. All I was trying to know is what's the difference and be prepared. That's all. Singapore is not really that bad and we have to be fair. For your info, we treated the maid better than average, extra bonus, can have freedom of own mobile phone and more. Perhaps you married a maid so you feel offended...if so I apologize. What I mean one day off each week if it can be rotated to weekday instead of weekend. We have a simple family and the last thing we want is to do the clearning ourself over the weekend after a week of heavy work...hope you understand what I meant.
As for the aggressiveness of a maid. I lived to see one of my friend whose jewleries and cash were wipped off and disappeared on the day the maid took a vacation home and she never return. Of course, this is not very common and it does happen. Yesterday Singapopre newspaper says a Indonesia maid cut a 2 year old baby boy private part by 2 inches and has to rush to the hospital...like most of the employers, all we need is some help and peace, not something bad, or sleeping with them (sorry, I do heard a lot of this)