General Guys' Point of View

[m_ichelle12]

hahahaha... Cant imagine this is the fate of a woman!!!!! Can a man live with a fat old woman? I know a woman can but not too sure about men...

[Mat]

hahahaha... Cant imagine this is the fate of a woman!!!!! Can a man live with a fat old woman? I know a woman can but not too sure about men...

As long as she is comprehensive as you claim you are and she allows him to go for Other experience,s why not.

The best yould be that she is rich in addition.

[m_ichelle12]

As long as she is comprehensive as you claim you are and she allows him to go for Other experience,s why not.

The best yould be that she is rich in addition.

hahahha.... you mean SUGAR MOMMY... Then it is out of the topic already...

[ticket2ride]

Here's my advice: marry the guy, have kids and grow fat. Then he'll trust you completely.

oh F no will I grow fat , ugly etc. I made a promise to myself, I'm never letting myself go, EVER.

If being attractive (atleast I'd like to think so, b/c I certainly don't think I'm fugly) causes these problems, then maybe unattractive people have it better.

I know that age has a lot to do with it. Still, it hurts my feelings really to hear him question me etc. He's gotten a lot better but still, so insecure. Claims he's getting better and doesn't not trust me anymore. Right, because now, I'm the one who's paranoid that if I do something he's going to question me or something. I tell him that I want to believe that he does trust me, but he's yet to prove it to me via actions. Words don't mean a thing anymore b/c he's lied to my face before saying he trusted me and his actions proved otherwise.

In other words, relationships suck. Or I should just move back to HK ASAP. haha

[tinybear]

What makes you think Hong Kong men are any better?

[ticket2ride]

What makes you think Hong Kong men are any better?

never said they were haha. I was kidding about moving asap .

I do enjoy being in the relationship i'm in despite some of it's imperfections. Ideally i'd love for him to move with me but that won't happen anytime soon.. atleast not for him.

Relationships are very difficult.. and unfortunately there's always going to be imperfections.. just some days those imperfections are more irritating than others.

[m_ichelle12]

never said they were haha. I was kidding about moving asap .

I do enjoy being in the relationship i'm in despite some of it's imperfections. Ideally i'd love for him to move with me but that won't happen anytime soon.. atleast not for him.

Relationships are very difficult.. and unfortunately there's always going to be imperfections.. just some days those imperfections are more irritating than others.

You have a very good point And what if the imperfections is his trust? I definately wont want to grow old and fat and ugly to gain the trust I like to look good and feel good and most of all make him feel proub beside me...

Relationship is very interesting... And most time I really wish I am a guy... Being a guy is far more better than woman...

[fsklee]

m_ichelle12,

I tend to feel that you started this thread for your man to read, so that he can have more trust in you. If he knows that you are in this forum and knows your username, I believe he should feel much better now.

The fact that you allows him to be with other women may not always help. He may feel you may end up doing or expecting the same.

Hope he feels better if he can read this thread, and hope that the situation will not recur.

[m_ichelle12]

m_ichelle12,

I tend to feel that you started this thread for your man to read, so that he can have more trust in you. If he knows that you are in this forum and knows your username, I believe he should feel much better now.

The fact that you allows him to be with other women may not always help. He may feel you may end up doing or expecting the same.

Hope he feels better if he can read this thread, and hope that the situation will not recur.

..... I dont think he will... nah... he wont and anyway I only showed him once... Well starting this thread is basically for me to know what a guy generally point of view, to be honest, I have not been in a relationship for a long long time and never thought I would this soon... There are many things that happen in a situation when my thoughts and intention is simple, and when it came from him, it become so complicated and I must admit he is right with his statement, just that I'm sometime rather stupid and dont really think much...

OMG, I realised what you mention on the 2nd paragraph... Do you really think so??? Or maybe thats is where the trust issue started... but I am not the one who started this idea though... Just that I understand why he has this idea... mmm....

[fsklee]

..... I dont think he will... nah... he wont and anyway I only showed him once... Well starting this thread is basically for me to know what a guy generally point of view, to be honest, I have not been in a relationship for a long long time and never thought I would this soon... There are many things that happen in a situation when my thoughts and intention is simple, and when it came from him, it become so complicated and I must admit he is right with his statement, just that I'm sometime rather stupid and dont really think much...

OMG, I realised what you mention on the 2nd paragraph... Do you really think so??? Or maybe thats is where the trust issue started... but I am not the one who started this idea though... Just that I understand why he has this idea... mmm....

Sometimes ideas can work either way. If he is insecure to start with, he may be even more insecure, as you show confidence in yourself.

Some questions you may ask yourself:
* Who will grow older first? I mean older, not more mature.
* Do you think he will have sex with another woman at all?
* Do you think he think you will have sex with another man some time?
* Are you really ready for this relationshio?