Good day !
I have been following the thread on Microaggression in Japan (link below) since a few weeks, and it has become hugely popular, and a real debate has started there.
The debate recently move to Taiwan (link below) and drew a lot of attention too.
I would like to move the thread to Hong Kong and hear the forumers' take on the subject. I hope the discussion can become as productive here in Hong Kong as it was and still is in Japan and Taiwan :-)
FORUMOSA • Victims of "Microaggressions"
small extract :
Have you ever noticed how many interpersonal interactions in Japan are like â€œspeed datesâ€ of set questions?
For example, the taxi drivers who have the odd fascination about where youâ€™re from, whether youâ€™re married, how much you like Japan, and how hard you think the Japanese language is?
The barkeeps and clientele who try to slot you into their hackneyed preconceptions of some country and nationality, what you can and cannot eat, and (as things get drunker) how much you enjoy having physical liaisons with Japanese?
The neighbors who have a white-hot curiosity about how differently you raise your kids, what you fight with your spouse about, and how much you like Japan â€” regardless of how many years youâ€™ve been interacting?
In the beginning, these were dismissible as just acts of awkward friendliness by people who didnâ€™t know how else to approach you. It at least made you really good in certain areas of Japanese conversation.
But after years of repeat games, boredom sets in, and you begin to realize two things: 1) that you can sleepwalk through most conversations, and 2) that, if you stay awake, you see there is a larger issue at play here: social control â€” something increasingly recognized by social psychologists as â€œmicroaggressions.â€
Microagressions, particularly those of a racialized nature, are, according to Dr. Derald Wing Sue in Psychology Today (Oct. 5, 2010), â€œthe brief and everyday slights, insults, indignities, and denigrating messages sent to (visible minorities) by well-intentioned (members of an ethnic majority in a society) who are unaware of the hidden messages being communicated.â€