Congrats!
I'm surprised your local fiance want able to answer you on these questions.
It has to be cake vouchers. There is a specific saying that when girls or women get married they have to treat their friends and families to cakes.
Unless you are a tycoon, everyone exists you to give $20. I have had some rich friends get married and everyone of them have $20. Sick to it and no one will call you cheap as they understand how expensive it will get for you two to give $50 per person.
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