I know this is an old post... i'm browsing references at the moment as I just found out my husband is having multiple affairs (one I've seen msgs is in Malaysia, not sure about other countries as he travels in Asia a lot)... these girls also got him into substance abuse as well.
We are married for more than 7 years, have a young kid together.
It's very mind draining at the moment. As he's arranging biz trips all the time that makes him hardly home, our child even complains why daddy's not home all the time.
I fronted him but he points finger at me... full denial and I was the reason he has to go seek for sexual pleasure...
I'm willing to go for counselling as I wanna know how and what to do next.