Like Tree157Likes

CNY Lai See Etiquette - Who, How Much, When and Why?

Closed Thread
Page 1 of 11 1 2 3 4 9 ... LastLast
  1. #1

    Join Date
    Oct 2006
    Location
    Hong Kong
    Posts
    15,696

    CNY Lai See Etiquette - Who, How Much, When and Why?

    So what's the going rate? I have this discussion with the missus every year and we always forget. As a couple do we have to give two lai see (i.e. one per person) or just one (i.e. one per couple)?

    - Door people? HK$20
    - Unmarried siblings? HK$500
    - Unmarried sibling's boyfriend? Anything????? HK$20????
    - Helper (newly started)? HK$500
    - Secretary? HK$500?

    Edited:

    Merged a few threads and bumping this back up for the annual FAQs surrounding CNY Lai Sees.

    https://geoexpat.com/articles/hong-k...-see-etiquette
    Last edited by shri; 24-01-2019 at 10:44 AM.

  2. #2

    Join Date
    Dec 2013
    Location
    Hong Kong
    Posts
    12,259

    Door people and similar - HKD 20
    Work people (secretary and juniors ) - probably a minimum of HKD100 but 500 sounds a lot for a secretary.

    As for helper - is she chinese? why would she expect anything if not chinese? This is the place I always struggle - what to do about non-Chinese. As in most of my staff. We give our bonuses around CNY... do I give them money too? Why?

    (PS thanks for the reminder to go and get some new notes!)


  3. #3

    Join Date
    Feb 2006
    Posts
    825

    In my office - fellow colleagues - $100. The secretary who supports you/your team - $800-2000 depending on your seniority etc.

    Some expats will give things to their secretaries like spa coupons rather than cash, never sure how the recipients feel about it.


  4. #4

    Join Date
    Dec 2013
    Location
    Hong Kong
    Posts
    12,259

    Now in a VERY long queue in HSBC Premier for notes! Clearly this is a popular thing to do....


  5. #5

    Join Date
    Dec 2002
    Location
    位置位置位置
    Posts
    49,888

    We've not given new notes for ages... people appreciate the amount, not its age.

    Mrs. Jones, jdf21st and markranson like this.

  6. #6

    Join Date
    Dec 2013
    Location
    Hong Kong
    Posts
    12,259
    Quote Originally Posted by shri:
    We've not given new notes for ages... people appreciate the amount, not its age.
    Do they? My understanding is that the point of this is not to give money but to give luck, and thus new notes are important. Or at least nice crisp looking notes. I

  7. #7

    Join Date
    Dec 2013
    Location
    Hong Kong
    Posts
    12,259

    Apparently we should all use " good as new" notes.

    Using good-as-new notes for lai-see

    shri and jdf21st like this.

  8. #8

    Join Date
    Aug 2006
    Posts
    11,806

    If you can spend it, it's "good as new"

    markranson likes this.

  9. #9

    Join Date
    Feb 2005
    Location
    Manchester, UK
    Posts
    7,893

    Some ppl waited over 2 hrs yesterday for new notes at banks, luckily my MIL to get some for us but I told my mrs, ppl care about getting money, they dont give a monkies if its new notes or old notes. given a choice of brand new 20$ or old 100$, what do u think ppl would want to get LOL

    - Door people? HK$20
    - Unmarried siblings? HK$100
    - Unmarried sibling's boyfriend? HK$20 / 50 MAX
    - Helper (newly started)? HK$500
    - Secretary? HK$500
    - Friends kids - $50

    Moclare1403 likes this.

  10. #10

    Join Date
    Feb 2005
    Location
    Manchester, UK
    Posts
    7,893
    Quote Originally Posted by pin:
    So what's the going rate? I have this discussion with the missus every year and we always forget. As a couple do we have to give two lai see (i.e. one per person) or just one (i.e. one per couple)?
    Dude I wouldnt worry what other people give, whats the going rate blah blah blah, Its your bloody own HARD EARNED money that you are giving away. Give what you can afford and what you think ppl deserve.

    Every person is going to have different amounts they give away.

Closed Thread
Page 1 of 11 1 2 3 4 9 ... LastLast