I'm sorry I can't help on this matter. Even though I have lots of friends and like them all, that doesn't mean I know their true way of working or character. If we gather together, it is true, our topic revolves around work, employer and our personal life. It all depends on our individual, regarding differences age, education and life experience to face our situation. And they some are happy with their employer some are not, all depends our strength. It's similar with someone professional who work in the office, if they can't stand with their Boss they have right to leave father than depression.
If I as an employer looking for helper when I would ask her to talk more about her, her family, her hobbies and what she wanted in her life, she looked for it during the interview, it's like one way to find out the history or character, you will know there's true or lie. Not merely just explaining what the employer wants like the most employer did.. Giving good attention to helpers will turn you back.