20-something and isolated in HK

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  1. #1

    Join Date
    Nov 2014
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    20-something and isolated in HK

    I've lived in HK a number of years but have struggled to find like-minded people or a solid group of friends. I know it's a very privileged and minor problem to have, especially now, but as I am set to be in Hong Kong over the long term, it'd be nice to know if anyone had similar feelings.

    I'm in my 20s, and though I'm not a hugely outgoing person, and enjoy being quite solitary, forging good and long-lasting friendships is important to me.

    I lived in Melbourne prior to this, and found it really easy to meet new people, with similar interests and invested in the same causes. I do enjoy living in Hong Kong, especially for the outdoors and hiking – but due to time constraints, I'm not able to join regular trail running meet ups.

    I personally really care about social justice and welfare – so am thinking of volunteering and hopefully can meet people that way...


  2. #2

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    Dec 2019
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    Welcome to HK. We live in a bubble called family. We’ve given up on making deep friends as by the time relations progress to real friendship the person has moved across HK or relocated abroad. Gave up we did. Cynical, I know, but sorry.

    On a more constructive note, try using the Meet-up app.


    Quote Originally Posted by teenicole
    I've lived in HK a number of years but have struggled to find like-minded people or a solid group of friends. I know it's a very privileged and minor problem to have, especially now, but as I am set to be in Hong Kong over the long term, it'd be nice to know if anyone had similar feelings.

    I'm in my 20s, and though I'm not a hugely outgoing person, and enjoy being quite solitary, forging good and long-lasting friendships is important to me.

    I lived in Melbourne prior to this, and found it really easy to meet new people, with similar interests and invested in the same causes. I do enjoy living in Hong Kong, especially for the outdoors and hiking – but due to time constraints, I'm not able to join regular trail running meet ups.

    I personally really care about social justice and welfare – so am thinking of volunteering and hopefully can meet people that way...

  3. #3

    Join Date
    Apr 2019
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    I agree that in HK it sometimes could be hard to meet people and make friends outside of work and family circles, I also struggle with it sometimes.
    I think even if you can not make it to some regular events, try to join clubs or teams, there is quite a bit out there. A lot of people are in dragonboat or rowing teams/clubs, sailing, rock climbing, hiking, biking etc... This is the way I tried to get active and meet new people and it definitely made me much happier here!