No marriage is for love. Marriage is a financial arrangement, a way to build credit and wealth, co-own property, and swap each other's passports. No one gets married for love and love alone, because if they did, there'd be no reason to take a legal step and bind each other's property. You could just love love love without the paperwork.
Marriage is a way for ordinary middle class people to build their wealth. It's the MAIN way for ordinary people to pass on will and estate (w/o a big legal case or expensive will), the main way for ordinary ppl to cross borders. Don't be so naive.
edit: got my answer. nvm.
You make it sound as though I have incurred risk or done something wrong, all I have done is offended some Westerners.
Dear PokFOOLam
I think I currently fit the criteria but at the moment I am stuck in Nigeria. The good news is I have access to a multi billion $ cash account but the bad news is i need $50000 US to be able to unlock it. In exchange for receiving the $50,000 I will happily sign over 51 per cent of all the Nigerian assets to you. Then I can fly over and marry you. Looking forward to it already darling [emoji182]