Will be having another go at trying to do away with the dowry completely, but fianceé is worried her family will think I’m cheap (I’m no millionaire lol so that’s accurate). Just worried the future in-laws would hold a grudge down the line, and in the grand scheme of things would ruining that relationship be worth 88k?
anyhow I’m willing to be the big man and negotiate it down to 38888 (which I heard is more common with the younger generation)..wish me luck!