l want to write to judge, in our divorce case which has dragged on for 3+ years now. any suggestions of what to write? l want to inform the judge that this case is straight in your face day light robbery being legalised. x is from the mainland where we met. x was working in an adult sex massage shop. x has pushed this case as far as it can go taking advantage of public funded Legal Aid , knowing it is 'free' l am completely dependent on money from my rented property, as cannot work. l have tried to work after my accident to no avail. just months ago, a MRI brain scan by Consultant Neurologist confirming my brain is damaged leading to memory and cognitive problems.l have to pay for caretaker, who is assisting in everyday essentials, children's daily needs, schooling. the court fees are literally dwindling all my resources requiring me to borrow from brothers.how can writing to judge, yes not normal, be damaging to my case, making them less sympathetic?