or they could be someone offering their opinion (is that still allowed on this forum without being deemed 'reactionary' or 'defensive'?) without having to ramble on and make grand, sweeping, statements...what is 'ideal' anyway? Aron Kwok?? Who the hell is that lol! If you're secure in who you are, why would you want to be someone else?
FWIW, i don't 'worship' any other human, or try to 'emulate' them...just living my life, doing what i do...no great mystery or motive behind it...