Usually, on two of the three instances I've had this happen that one debt (to telecommunications companies in both cases) was actually only part of a far bigger mess of debts to banks, credit cards, her friends (apparently the Filippinas organise lots of minor to major inter-friend loans and underwriting) and in one case debt collection from other countries. So my rule now which I should have had from the very beginning when I was fresh of the boat is, 'Any financial problems [that I or this household get to know about obviously] - you are fired.'