guys just ignore PDLM. He's an ass that like to antagonize people for fun. I completely understand a gay male in hong kong wanting other gay friends to hang out with to do things, other than clubbing. It's a weird gay scene here, very closed off I find.
Sometimes the local gay church in town does meet and greets but most of the mixers are cantonese speakers. There is a GLTB coffee shop near soho where a lot of the community goes- you can meet people there and make friends without expectations of having to bang them afterwards. Unless, you want to- no judging...