Google 'Charisma man' comic's.. It's about Japan but I think you'll enjoy
Despite working in a senior role as an expat with a good salary and benefits, with a husband on a dependent visa. I meet all too many people in HK who assume that I am the Chinese girl who has 'won' a rich gweilo, just because of our respective ethnic origins.
What rubbed me the wrong way about that comment was, a 42 year old guy saying he wants to live a quiet life in HK, and someone replying "No way man you can pull some much hotter women here than back home as a white guy, aim higher." That is gross to me, I'm sorry. Many white men come here and think they are God's gift to Asian women and have in my opinion borderline racist attitudes and expectations of what a relationship with a local woman should be like.
I think this type of person is in the minority though, virtually all white guys I meet here seem to treat women of all ethnicities, with great respect.