thanks all for the help
I will try the options.
The thing is that I have a small Kid and moving will be a pain (although no option). we have a lot of stuff and hence need a bigger (around 900 sqf atleast) apartment to keep the stuff in there.
finding and moving to a new place + uncertainity about whether we are relocating is getting on my nerves...
its a bit of a shock since we are very happily living in there and were going to decide about my move early next year.
thanks again