dear friends.... THANX for ur answr....... i never find any difference bt any malayali and punjabi, or indian and chinese or any other natives.. humans are just humans.. and they will be....... as we will be new to a country where we dont know anything., therir culture, what we can expect there, their eating habits, food availability, etc etc........... of course every particular place has their own food specialities..... if i can find a malayali there.. it will be very good in a way like i can know where i will get malayali's unavaoidable stuffs like our big brown rice, and every other things..... and we can talk in our mother tongue to someone.. which can keep at least a bit of homesickness away for the first few days..... and specially about my small kid... will he be able to cope with the climate there.. if he catches cold or something, where should i go.. so many things are there dear frnds for me to be worried..
dear friends..... unity in diversity is the keyword for India and will be.................