@almighty: Well, any mature adult should be able to figure out a suitable place to go for sympathy. From the previous post about letting her husband move to a foreign country first, it should have been obvious that this is not the place to go for unconditional acceptance and reassurance.
Whilst I think that sometimes Geo is a bit too cliquey and quick to criticise, I also think that this is far preferable to this website being a group hug-fest. In fact, I can't think of any fora that are hug-fests.
Hmm... if you want to see a some fora that are really argumentative without the redeeming features of being practical and useful, you should check out the other main expat forum for HK.
Overall, the entire internet is not a place to go to for sympathy. We're mostly strangers here, impersonally sitting behind the anonymity of our keyboards. When I suggested Facebook or Myspace, I was half joking (especially Myspace- which might not even exist, and if it does, is the domain of emo teenagers). Relationship angst is best sorted out with your spouse, or with close friends. Not the entire world.