Why did you make the move so quickly?
Either you are one confused lady or you are running away from something?
I take it that you are single, - I won't say career w**** as I once was, but I'd say before you mix with the peope you don't want to mix with for the sake of having human company, take a chill pill, and look around.
How long were you in Germany? Having a German background myself, the country differs varstly in different parts, aka, people, dynamics, politics, you name it, even dialects. Seems to be like that is other countries I've lived in, but it's different for everyone.
I lived in Berlin for 2 yrs - left because of family health issues back in home city ( dearly regret it, and my hubby knows, boy he knows...) but speaking from experience, ( and you don't have to take my advice cos' 50% of the time, I don't ) get to know the 'place' before you get to know the 'face'.
i.e: don't wear your heart on a sleeve here as just about everyone is out for an opportunity ....
P.S. you'll be 'right. Check out some of the groups on the geoexpat groups forums.