There is a special woman waiting for you somewhere, and you will definitely come across her - sooner or later!!
Patience is what is required!! I know that it is easy for one to say that especially if the one saying it already has someone special in their lives to talk to, share ones thoughts and feelings, chill out with, spend a few relaxing moments with.....
It is difficult to be alone and patient for the right person to come along....
But you will definitely not find the kind of person that you are looking for, in a bar/club not in Hong Kong or anywhere else in the world...
BUT, you will meet some extra ordinary ladies at the get togethers that we have .....
Women who are working, who have traditional values, who can sing beautifully, laugh wholeheartedly at "naughty" jokes yet have an aura of innocence that tells you without doubt that morals and conducting oneself with dignity are still something to be proud of!! Not all are single, not all are looking to find someone - permanent or otherwise, BUT all know and believe in Friendships - good clean friendships!!! Where there is enough respect between people.
You MAY or MAY NOT find Mr. or Miss Right, right here.
But most importantly, I now know that almost all of the ladies are very mature in the way they think and carry themselves... no one will judge you on what you have written or said, they take you at your face value and how you treat them....You will find many of us at the disco and at the bars but it is always in large groups and with FRIENDS!!
So maybe, what you should be doing is getting yourself involved with everyone on Geoexpat as a friend FIRST, be it a friendship with either a man or a woman!! You will find the kind of ladies you are talking about mostly at a social gathering of either eating out together or being involved in sports/sight seeing!!! So stop - just writing and make sure that you are a part of all our get togethers, and maybe one of your good lady friends might eventually lead you to your Miss Right to be!!
Warm regards,
Rubina.