This point I think you are right, he is a bit insecure, he mention that to me and it is a good and bad things to me, good; He care about me and us, bad; I dont what else more to do
Maybe it should work 2way, but I just dont like reading into others. But... i like to share my stuff, hehehe... I think it is fun to share and we can chat and laugh about it like friends... Isn't it better to have a relationship with some light feeling and have fun like friends?
What does it take a man to trust his woman?
Originally Posted by Sannomiya:
haha. funny stuff. i was thinking along the same lines, but mat got there first.
anyways, a hottie who is down for a threesome because she's crazy about her boyfriend? that's marriage material. got a sister?
men are pretty insecure and the thought that our girl is keeping secrets, no matter how insignificant, makes us think something is going on when there probably isn't. probably a control issue.
if he wants to read your mail, just say no problem as long as you can read his. shows that everything is a two way street. no need to explain it...sounds like you are rationalizing a bad act.
i'm big on trust, no matter how curious i am, i never read my girl's emails or ask her about her past boyfriends, or look over her shoulder when she is online. and i expect her to give me the same courtesy. isn't full disclosure the result of a lack of trust? also, you probably don't want to know some things no matter how much you think you want or need to know.