Thanks everyone for your advice....and all the diff points of view offered...they've been really helpful both in terms of making me less emotional so that I can think things through objectively and also the options open to me.
Over the weekend I stayed with a colleague and we talked alot, I called him and obviously he didnt like it that I didnt go home but I told him that his behaviour is really stressing me out and with my intensified emotions, i just cant handle it right now. LIke many of you had adivsed, I stayed calm and reasonable when I talked to him and didnt start the conversation feeling sorry for myself, I made it clear that this was not a conversation intended to brainwash him into thinking he was at fault, but rather my attempt at finding out whether we can still cont. be together in the future.
Alot of the things he said was similar to what lakai had mentioned in his post.... one thing positve was that somewhere during the conservation we admitted that this was all new to us and may have to take some time to work out our emotions and stress and deal with it more responsibly. He said that when I am emotional I become irrational and that stresses him out...
He also suggested that I start my maternity leave earlier so that I can rest more at home, maybe with more sleep I will feel better...
I dont know, every time he's calm he makes me feel that Ive been immature...but women are more emotional than men and esp so when they're pregant....I need to know that at times when Im emotional, I will be still be supported and understood...
Is that really too much to ask for?...I dont want to get emontional, but I cant help it, he asks me to control it, im not sure if that's possible...