anyone got any advice on how to settle into hk or feel less homesick.
my parents are chinese but i was raised abroad. i finished college last year and myself and my father decided to come ot hong kong for a while. even though my father is with me now, i feel very lonely and i dont feel like i get along with my extended family that well (cousins, aunts etc), and it makes me really anxious when we have those family getogethers. ive started doing some random charity work and have a job but im not really meeting new people, and the people i have met, i either dont see them again ( not that many regulars at volunteering) or else i dont like the people i meet, and we dont really click.
i have a job now which is nice, but literally apart from working and volunteering and spending some time with my relatives i dont have friends tht i can meet up with, or do fun things like shopping or just going out for food or anything. been here over 2 months now and i feel like i should be making more progress, dont know if this is normal, or how long it took for people ot settle in, and if so how? i feel so sad, i feel so disconnected from people and its so annoying. ive spent time with my family but we just arent that close.
Any help would be appreciated!