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I'm sure all things considered Hong Kong guys are not as fat as their American friends. This alone makes the move worthwhile, that is unless you like your man with a nice soft tummy to squeeze
If it's solely for the experience sake and money isn't an object which is even better due to the currency exchange rate being in you favor, I say totally go for it tiger!
All this dating issue and finding the right one for life might be one reason to stay in HK for good (at most), but definitely not one that should have any significant weight to your decision whether you should move/ give it a shot in HK which probably was never in the first place. And even if you find the right one that doesn't necessarily mean you will end up staying in HK for good as few good examples are provided by a certain member here.
Regarding your extra loud ticking inner clock, it must be hard for you especially if your parents are Asian (pending how they were brought up) so there are some pressure. It also doesn't make it any easier living in a society where we are "dictate" what to do/ should be at certain ages, but that's simply life. Either fall in line like others or don't and stand out. Plus, you are as old you feel and Asians tend to have that perk to look relative younger. So, I guess you are good.
You obviously have your own reasons to move to HK and based on the previous information: having lived in many places before and your whatsoever employer, that might be ironically the right time and give you the urge to change your scenery. With all that being said, just go with your guts and if it doesn't end up working for you, you still got plan U S A!
The reality is that many of the kids that are brought up in HK rarely lift a finger in the home because they often have domestic helpers. Combine that with the fact that there are few opportunities for them to be handy with tools and that with long hours at work, people often eat on the run and you have a number of men not great at looking after themselves. Of course, it's not as much of an issue if there's always domestic help. I know several older expats that I wouldn't classify as overly attractive that have met attractive and somewhat wealthy younger HK women with professional jobs that said they found it difficult to find an appropriate mate once they got in their mid to late thirties. Another fact of life is that many HK men will have young ladies in China. Shenzhen and many other Guangdong cities being very convenient to HK makes that not uncommon. There are also thousands of young domestic helpers that are very interested in meeting men especially expats. Competition is fierce and temptation is everywhere. Men also go on trips all around the region in China, Thailand and the Philippines where once again, temptation is everywhere. You need to have trust, not be a jealous woman and have a relatively open mind when you live in a place like HK otherwise it can be upsetting. It's not in your face like in places like Pattaya or Angeles but it's definitely not the same as living in a western city. As a bonus, in HK like Singapore, you don't have to worry as much for your personal safety as you do in the US.
You can refer to the these two pages:
https://nursing.hku.hk/people/lecturers
https://nursing.hku.hk/people/research-faculty
You will find lecturers at 'Teaching Faculty' and Assi. Prof, Asso. prof and prof at the research page. Basically the universities in HK, as they are mostly funded by the government, need to follow certain budget constraints and thereby they would very much rely on different tiers of lecturers, from assistant to senior, to take up the teaching duty. For some faculties, like politics, the line is kind of blur as you will from time to time hear some lecturers in giving opinions on some news. But as for nursing, seems the difference is pretty obvious: lecturers teach a lot more and prof do research. After all, hiring a lecturer is much more affordable for the uni and from what I know, many uni would hire all kind of part time lecturers, some are even called the wandering lecturers, in order to save cost.
So for your case, I am pretty sure the hku position is going to be focusing on the teaching side instead of the research side. And that's gonna affect the salary they offer too. But then, it's also a government requirement on acquiring foreign lecturers/ profs as it helps the unis to be more 'international', so that could be a plus for you.
Cos people don't cheat in the west right
Look men are men and women are women.
The only difference I find is that in HK it's done more in the open (you can actually bumped into someone you know with the wrong women for example) but temptation is everywhere in the world and men screw over the world over. not more or less in HK than in NYC or Paris or Sydney etc etc etc.